I'm pretty sure everybody must've witnessed those two inseparable dudes at least once in their lifetime.I have.You cannot miss out on them.The incredible closeness is enviable.There is a lot to learn about friendship from the two "bro's".
Most of what makes SCRUBS so entertaining is the whole appearance of Turk and J.D to be such a cozy "couple".Its like they have completely let their guard down with each other.And nothing sexier than a man who is capable of doing that without feeling threatened. ;-)
It's like suddenly they have transformed into kids and that vulnerability makes them just soooo adorable!!Well the possibility of these kind of interactions appearing to be "gay" is more funny as opposed to detestable.So I don't understand the whole "rolling of the eyes" gesture every time you see two guys..well..aa..giggle?.
Its cute.No doubt about that.
Its endearing to watch these two talk about absolutely the silliest of things and crack-up over each others hairstyles,love life,game,taste in music,luck with women..anything at all.
I have witnessed the biggest of bromances in my school.And yes I was a little more attentive to it because I had a crush on one of the two "brothers from another mother".
As I see now as to how their friendship has stood the test of time ,I cannot help but try and figure out the "formula" for timeless friendship.
1)I think that they focus more on being happy no matter what ,instead of being right or wrong whenever they have a fight.
2)They undoubtedly stand up for each other at all times.No matter what happens.:-)
3)Lots of laughter.Lots of it.Laughter comes first.Its a rule.Yes even before "feelings"!
4)Having the best of intentions and yet not being overbearing when it comes to the choices they make in their lives.No judging basically.
5)Always having a "thing" to talk about rather than discussing people all the time. :P
6)They always have something that they absolutely love to do and that keeps them connected for life.And I'm pretty sure their interests don't only include shopping :-/
7)They say everything to each other's face.I love this one.
and the more I learn the more I shall include..for now I have to go..TEST tomorrow!But this scene form scrubs is a laughter riot! and its soo cute..awwww..I love Turk and J.D!! :-*
"This is the story of a 20 years young girl trying to find meaning and purpose in her life.
Every other place she finds herself in is where she shouldn't be"..thinks Vinnie to herself amidst her WRITEUPS...
"What kind of a word is that anyway? 'writeups'..sounds so.....just so..WRONG..gramatically ofcourse!"
"How pathetic..i mean its already third year of engineering and i still haven't digested the awaiting disaster of becoming another creatively challenged engineer..LAME"
Turns around , lips tightly together with a condescending smile "Miss.perfect-all-the-time" "Miss.i-have-all-the-writeups" Annie says "OMG Vinnie!you don't even have the 4th writeup..MUJHSE leleti"
"Ya sure. only to be blamed later for a 'missing writeup'. No thank u" Vinnie thinks to herself.
"What the hell am i doing here anyway?i'm a born artist..i always just knew that because
a)i'm slow in every sense
b)i complain a lot
c)and i'm mostly attracted to conventionally ugly people"
And so Vinnie goes out for a breath of fresh air. Walks out of that graveyard known as the classroom.
"FOCUS sweetheart!on BEING PRESENT. Be in tune with the present.In alignment with whatever happens or doesn't happen to be precise." smiling to herself "I'm definitely going a long way in my life. Just look how amazingly insightful i am.A girl of just 20.Just wow!"
Smiling to 'Ms.i-have-to-get-all-my-writeups-checked-and-project-submitted-before-anyone-else'
"oh!i'm way better than you.You just don't realize it now coz you're lost like everybody else in this rat race."
"Ohno!the EGO in me talks again. Exactly what Eckhart Tolle talks about.In fact nobody has to even talk about it.Can't be that hard for you to realize on your own what this is Vinnie-LOSERISH ARROGANCE"
"Anyway i think i should check myself in the mirror" she thinks to herself and opens the door to the washroom.
Shuts it immediately "damn!again?..reaffirmation of my looks!"
"i really need to stop identifying myself with the way that i look..nobody's going to be looking the same forever"
Walking back to the graveyard "You're still learning.Soon you'll be enlightened.Soon you'll experience all that these spiritual gurus talk about"
"Besides what if i do check myself in the mirror and don't like what i see?I'll be carrying around the baggage of my clumsy hair-do all day long"
"what am i doing?Vinnie go back in there.Do not be a slave to the consequences of your thoughts.Do not fear yourself.My god Vinnie!you're absolutely ridiculous!"
About turn and on her way to the washroom.
She checks herself WITHOUT JUDGEMENT in the mirror and then steps out of the washroom having CONQUERED HER FEARS.
Walking back to the classroom.Trotting in full swing"I am I am I am(deepak chopra).Om Om Om.
Ohm.OHM'S LAW.His parents must've been very spiritual.No wonder he grew up to be a genius contributing to the society so brilliantly."
"maybe i should get married to a spiritual man and have a baby with him.He will grow up to save the world probably because of my laidback and humanitarian values and capability to be present all the time"
"no! but no i have to get there!.. i have to be present all the time..including NOW..being totally present..THERE as in HERE"
"wow! there as in here..now that was smart!NO ..stop it..just stop labelling....................."walks past the absolute stud Param
"oh!i'm seeing him after days and the T-shirt he's wearing is the perfect shade of green"
"EYE-CONTACT..yay!!" :-D
"Vinnie where have you been yaar"calls out pratima her best friend
"Vinnie i really need to get things cleared out with Daksh yaar"
And like her own internal drama wasn't enough.The two girls decide to cut the next lecture to feed on to some more of drama.
And then his nervousness grew as he kept chattering his way while simultaneously thinking of ways to get closer and establish more proximity..
She wondered -WHY?WHAT??
Ofcourse she knew what was awaiting her and at the same time felt completely disconnected.
She didn't mind though. I mean come on!just a kiss and a girl of only 19.Who cares?
"i have all the time in the world to become more responsible for my actions"she thought.
And then came an end to the chattering and for her it was the end of all disguises.
As he made his move and came closer she just felt...soo...short of breath.
She was looking upon herself.
She wasn't really there where she was-in his arms.
Her uncertainty mistaken for shyness grew into his confidence.
Full of himself the conversation followed.
HE:why do you like me?(suddenly he was the alpha-male)
SHE: I don't.(clarity followed as she said it out loud , even to herself for the first time)
HE:(laughs and holds her closer.just cannot believe it.SMUG .SMUG!)So you came all the way here to meet me and you really want me to believe that you do not like me?
SHE:Actually and i mean it.It's like i like your lips.Your mouth and teeth.Your nose is pretty.I don't like YOU as such.Infact you're a little too full of yourself.
(She pushes him gently to explain.)
You see , all my friends I've grown up with since school have been kissed.Maybe i'm suffering from a low self-esteem and by the way does that not make you want to kiss me anymore?Is it "unattractive"?
i'm sorry it's just hard to be "cute silly girl in love with you" all the time.
Now tell me whether you want to kiss me?Just to try it?
And most importantly-If i do not like it , will you give me the liberty to pull back and not give me unnecessary baggage.
I mean you're cute and extremely sweet and have this very cute laugh. I don't like you otherwise.
And you know what i want to be kissed by you only if you really want to feel my mouth against your mouth.
Slowly at first because we have all the time in the world.And not if you only want to kiss me to get your hands to the places where you actually intended to go in which case i do not want to.
I do not want to kiss you.
It's this gut feeling and now i just want to go home.
I really just want to go home.
HE simply runs away for good!
Good for her(SHE).
Good for him(HE).
:-) MORAL OF THE STORY: Do some one good by giving them the truth :-)
